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If you
send this to just one person, it should make it all the way
around the world by Mother's Day...May 12th.
This is
for all the mothers who froze their buns off on metal bleachers
at football games Friday night instead of watching from cars, so
that when their kids asked, "Did you see me?" they could say,
"Of course, I wouldn't have missed it for the world," and mean
it.
This is
for all the mothers who have sat up all night with sick toddlers
in their arms, wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and
cherry Kool-Aid saying, "It's OK honey, Mommy's here."
This is
for all the mothers of Kosovo who fled in the night and can't
find their children. This is for the mothers who gave birth to
babies they'll never see. And the mothers who took those babies
and gave them homes. For all the mothers of the victims of the
Colorado shooting, and the mothers of the murderers.
For the
mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of
their TVs in horror, hugging their child who just came home from
school, safely. For all the mothers who run carpools and make
cookies and sew Halloween costumes. And all the mothers who
DON'T.
What
makes a good Mother anyway? Is it patience? Compassion? Broad
hips? The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and sew a button
on a shirt, all at the same time? Or is it heart? Is it the ache
you feel when you watch your son or daughter disappear down the
street, walking to school alone for the very first time? The
jolt that takes you from sleep to dread, from bed to crib at 2
a.m. to put your hand on the back of a sleeping baby? The need
to flee from wherever you are and hug your child when you hear
news of a school shooting, a fire, a car accident, a baby dying?
So this
is for all the mothers who sat down with their children and
explained all about making babies. And for all the mothers who
wanted to but just couldn't. This is for reading "Goodnight,
Moon" twice a night for a year. And then reading it again. "Just
one more time."
This is
for all the mothers who yell at their kids in the grocery store
and swat them in despair and stomp their feet like a tired
2-year old who wants ice cream before dinner. This is for all
the mothers who taught their children to tie their shoelaces
before they started school. And for all the mothers who opted
for Velcro instead. For all the mothers who bite their lips
sometimes until they bleed when their 14-year-olds dye their
hair green. Who lock themselves in the bathroom when babies keep
crying and won't stop. This is for all the mothers who show up
at work with spit-up in their hair and milk stains on their
blouses and diapers in their purse.
This is
for all the mothers who teach their sons to cook and their
daughters to sink a jump shot. This is for all mothers whose
heads turn automatically when a little voice calls "Mom?" in a
crowd, even though they know their own offspring are at home.
This is for mothers who put pinwheels and teddy bears on their
children's graves. This is for mothers whose children have gone
astray, who can't find the words to reach them.
This is
for all the mothers who sent their sons to school with stomach
aches, assuring them they'd be just FINE once they got there,
only to get calls from the school nurse an hour later asking
them to please pick them up, Right Away.
This is
for young mothers stumbling through diaper changes and sleep
deprivation. And mature mothers learning to let go. For working
mothers and stay-at-home mothers. Single mothers and married
mothers. Mothers with money, mothers without.
This is
for you all. So hang in there!
"Home is
what catches you when you fall - and we all fall." Please pass
this to a wonderful mother you know.

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO
ALL OF YOU!

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